How do I meditate?
Meditation doesn’t need to be complicated. In fact, It’s one of those things that, in it’s true essence, is very simple.
You can do guided or unguided meditations. Guided meditations may be a bit easier for people who are new to meditation, and I like guided meditations for myself, as I feel like I am more easily able to surrender to the experience.
Practicing meditation can be as simple as:
Choosing something to focus on, like your breath.
Noticing when the mind wonders.
Bringing your attention back to the breath.
The mind is going to wander, and that’s okay. It’s not about trying to push away your thoughts and feelings. It’s about allowing them to come and go without judgement, and not follow them as a train of thought.
When you do notice the mind wondering, just gently bring it back to your point of focus.
Some days this will feel easier than others. Sometimes a lot of thoughts and feelings will keep coming into the mind. That’s fine. We want to gently stay with that exercise of bringing the mind back to the point of focus, no matter how it feels. That’s the exercise. The act of bringing your focus back is what meditation is.
“We are training the mind to have the ability to be intensely focused on one object, yet be aware of everything else. This creates a state of mind that is focused on the one hand and relaxed on the other. This is a state of flow.”
- Excerpt from a Headspace meditation with Andy Puddicombe
Benefits for learning
Benefits like increased awareness and improved focus come in handy when it comes to learning or improving your singing skills.
I always take my students through a mini guided meditation at the beginning of each lesson, and I consistently notice an increase in focus, relaxation, and a willingness to learn.
Awareness is so important when learning to sing, especially on a physical level. There are so many sensations that we feel when we use our voices. It’s helpful to deepen your awareness of your body to be able to map these sensations, so you can recreate the ones that work.
Benefits for performing
When the body is stressed, it triggers the sympathetic nervous system to release stress hormones like epinephrine and cortisol into the blood stream, causing a fight or flight response.
This can result in the heart pounding, sweaty palms, and tunnel vision, which can be enough to make some people not even want to perform.
Meditation can help keep the mind and body relaxed, the parasympathetic nervous system kicks in and causes the body to stop releasing all those stress hormones.
Meditation can help us learn to condition the body to relax when we need it the most, allowing for a more optimal performance experience.
Think of a cheetah in the wild, still and relaxed, in no rush at all, yet ready to pounce at any moment. This condition of being relaxed and focused at the same time allows us to be in a state of flow, present in our minds and bodies. We are able to more easily tap into our intuition, allowing the “magic” of the present moment into our experience, letting go and trusting ourselves.
Just like singing, Meditation takes practice
daily practice
Like most skills, we get the most benefit from meditation when we do it as a regular practice. The brain reacts just like our body does when we stop exercising. It likes to go back to it’s old ways.
So, to keep these benefits and continue to increase them takes regular practice on our parts, so we are continuing to train the brain.
Creating a habit of it by doing it at the same time each day and attaching it to another habit like brushing your teach, can be really helpful.
Even 10 minutes a day can cause positive changes in the brain.
Science Can Motivate Us to practice
Proof that it works can keep us going on the days we just don’t feel like it
The science behind the benefits of meditation is growing rapidly, and it can really motivate us to keep a regular practice.
Functional MRIs have allowed us to actually observe what happens in the brain when people meditate. Meditation can literally change the brain. Studies show that it can rewire neural pathways that improve both the mind and body by building new positive neural pathways and decreasing the negative ones. This is called neuroplasticity.
Studies showed an increase in gray-matter density in the hippocampus (where learning, memory, self-awareness, compassion, and introspection happen in the brain) and decreased density in the amygdala (otherwise known as the lizard brain, which processes fear, anxiety and stress). The amygdala is also involved in the processing of emotions triggering the fight or flight response.
Meditation also effects the medial pre-frontal cortex, the “me center” of the brain, from where we primarily interpret the world. This part of the brain is involved in regulating feelings of fear and anxiety. Meditation can decrease the neural connections to the “me center”, allowing the brain to less focused on yourself, so when bodily sensations of fear and anxiety come up, you have the ability to not respond as strongly to them.
Your ability to assess momentary physical sensations for what they are increases, so you allow them to come and go without becoming caught up in a story about what they mean. This allows you to be less reactive and feel more balanced.